The firm softness of her flesh, the beauty and the smoothness of the curves of her youth, and the vitality and strength of her youthful spirit, is what every woman would like to retain through life though time lays down her wishes in a heap, while the smart ones take exceptional care of their body and learn to think young. With age, the body puts on weight, builds up flab, and a few pregnancies later, the whole dimension of sex in a relationship is bound to change. What simple sparks lit up into balls of fire initial days of courtship and marriage, over the years, gradually fizzle out a relationship into just a commitment, and nothing more, if there are not enough sparks in life on a regular basis, and especially in bed and this is very true, as the divorce rate suggests. There are many ways you can put the spark back in the bed, - from making some extrinsic makeovers like a new haircut, a new wardrobe, a nose job, or liposuction (if you are willing to spend for the spark) or trying a totally different angle focused inside-out, like giving up timidity (which evidently is a kill joy), from giving and receiving more sex, love and making more time to fulfill each others fantasies. If sexy lingerie excites him, then you can't be any lucky, in spite of your age or your body shape, because there are ranges of sexy lingerie available for all shapes and sizes.
You sure would not have forgotten the kick in confidence you get every time you wear something new and special, whether it be a jean, skirt, jacket or shoes. Shoes are not created with sex in mind though high heeled shoes can alter posture by pushing out your ass, and curving your torso in such a way that your boobs stick out, enhancing your sexiness. Similarly, sexy lingerie is not so sex intended though it can be used as an effective tool against those who are known succumb. The popular misconception that sexy lingerie is meant only for special occasions or when the otherwise unsexy woman intends to show herself off as a smoking-hot sex pot that he has never seen, (while on other days, is it demure schoolgirl regular white cotton panty?) just to be striped clean before a session of extreme sex, as if you are unconditionally obliged to have sex every time you wear a sexy lingerie. On the contrary, feeling sexy is an attitude, bra burner or not, sexy lingerie is designed to highlight womanly curves and crevices, just like costumes and cosmetics do (and whether sexy lingerie floods the man's veins with a double load of carnal desire is another subject, well explored).
Wearing sexy lingerie, day in and out, not from the urge to get noticed but from the desire to live the sexy woman within, from the day you thought the regular white cotton panty was for school girls and grannies. Today, the sexy lingerie trend has developed and evolved into a stage where it can be referred to as a symbol of quality that envelops a woman's desire with that kind of feel. And finally, wearing sexy lingerie is an indication of loving yourself. Wear one and fall in love with yourself! Sexy lingerie can play the catalyst to a good sex life that is not only relaxing and bonding, but is also a healer and a bridge to build broken conversations. In certain oriental religions, the act of copulation is considered almost 'holy,' and whether holy or a fulfillment of base carnal desire, it is as much a human necessity as air, water and food. A healthy sex life reflects on every other thing in life and is a stimulant for more joy. So death to the baggy panty!